At age 27, Dorthilen Haynes was shocked to learn she had aggressive triple negative breast cancer. But just before treatment was to begin, she would have another shock — she was four weeks pregnant.
In June 2019, she felt a hard, movable lump in her breast. Her primary care doctor ordered diagnostic imaging and after a biopsy, he referred her to the breast cancer team at Henry Ford Cancer Institute.
As a foster care caseworker, Dorthilen was accustomed to making important decisions and recommendations to judges. Similarly, Dorthilen knew she needed time to process information.
“I wanted to wait and cry,” says Dorthilen, a married mother with a then three-year-old daughter. “But my mom said, ‘You don’t have time for a pity party.”
At Henry Ford, her breast cancer team quickly coordinated a treatment plan. Her nurse navigator scheduled all her appointments, including a meeting with a fertility preservation specialist to freeze Dorthilen’s eggs so she could have a baby in the future.
After a preliminary urine test, the fertility expert said, “We can’t freeze your eggs. You’re already pregnant.”
Turning to her husband who had been talking with their daughter, she asked him, “Did you hear that? She says I’m pregnant!”
“We were so shocked, we couldn’t believe it,” says Dorthilen.
The pregnancy required a quick course correction for her treatment plan, says surgeon Jessica Bensenhaver, M.D., who heads Henry Ford’s breast cancer program.
“Because the tumor was large and because she was pregnant — during which time patients can’t receive radiation — a lumpectomy was not an option,” says Dr. Bensenhaver. “Normally, chemotherapy can melt this type of tumor, but tumor-shrinking chemotherapy is not recommended in the first trimester of pregnancy. Surgery was the only option to initiate treatment, so we first performed a mastectomy."
Although the cancer had been rapidly growing, surgery revealed the disease had not spread into the lymph nodes that had been checked during the mastectomy.
“Dr. Bensenhaver and the team were great,” Dorthilen says. “We had a connection and personal interaction. She made me feel comfortable.”
Chemotherapy was next for Dorthilen, who was the first person in her family identified with the BRCA gene.
At Henry Ford’s chemotherapy class, nurses advised Dorthilen about the side effects and offered a cool cap to save her hair. With the cool cap worn during chemotherapy, there was a 20 percent chance she would keep hair.
“As an African American woman, I have thicker hair and hoped that would help prevent hair loss,” says Dorthilen. She kept her hair.
In spring 2020, Dorthilen gave birth to a healthy, “miracle baby.” “He’s wonderful,” she says. One month later, she began another round of chemotherapy for twelve weeks.
“My husband Johnny has shown me what true love means. You expect illness when you’re older, but this happened in our twenties,” says Dorthilen. “I’m so grateful to have him. He makes me feel beautiful.”
Dorthilen and her husband are a team at home and on the basketball court. Together they’ve coached basketball at Melvindale High School and Strong Middle School.
“I’ve had my family to help and motivate me,” says Dorthilen. “My mom is my superhero and best friend.” Her mother relocated from Missouri to Michigan two weeks after the diagnosis.
“I used to act like I was invincible,” says Dorthilen. “But cancer can get anyone — your age or race doesn’t matter. Go to the doctor, pay attention and ask questions. Get a mammogram.”